Are you ready ?
Are you ready ?
9 weeks to Dating
Breakthrough
starts Nov. 27th!
Fall in love with yourself, experience healing and wholeness, grow closer to God, love the dating process and attract a healthy, godly man!
A Dating Journey Led By The Holy Spirit
Dating is not a one-size fits all tips and tricks and not everything applies to everyone in the same way
During this course we focus on hearing God’s voice and going deep with the Lord by asking powerful questions so that He can reveal His heart for you in the dating process
— Everything we do is led by the Lord which sets you up for a lifetime of intimacy —
Learn to be your own dating coach (with Holy Spirit)
so you never have to be dependent upon another person for the answers
Phase 1: The Heart Work
The first 4 weeks will be focused on doing the heart work with Jesus
- Beliefs about yourself
- Identifying Triggers
- Identity in Dating
Phase 2: It's Time to Date
It’s time to step out and do your part and trust God to do His
- Projecting availability
- Being authentic in dating
- How to meet guys and talk to them
- Weekly Challenges begin
Phase 3: Set Up for Success
Set yourself up for success as you step out and get to know different people
- Pacing
- Boundaries
- Pursuing back
Testimonials
This is the story of Christian and Ashliegh Schlotzhauer. I joined your course in hopes of learning about dating and meeting someone who I would later marry. I remember when I joined it was a prophetic action for me to step out and believe that God would grant me my heart’s desire of meeting someone.
I joined the course and it helped me so much to be open and do this journey with the Holy Spirit. Christian and I met on upward in December 2022 when I saw his profile I immediately felt a connection that I knew was from God. We started talking and hit it off immediately, in that same month we decided to meet each other , he met my family because he visited me in Christmas and I remember him feeling like home but I still was not sure.
As I was doing your course there were things that I thought would be a problem. I remember telling Bec in a zoom call meeting I thought he was gonna be mean and you told me to not judge him so quickly, find out more about as we both come from different backgrounds. You truly helped with that advice , because he is so kind and if I didn’t take your advice we wouldn’t have made it far.
Your course gave me healthy perspective and kept my mind open to how God would sent my husband. Before Christian I went on some dates that were just not appealing but something about him felt right. We did long distance for most of our relationship, zoom was our best friend in those times.
We went to Bible study together on zoom, we prayed on zoom , watched church on zoom, we watched movies and played games and it was such a fulfilling beautiful experience. We both felt the Lord on the relationship. In April he flew down to where I live and proposed to me and by July 2023 we are now married.
I remember my pastor asking him why he chose me and he said because he felt the peace of the lord on it and I could not have been more please to marry someone that sought the Lord in his decision. The powerful thing about our story is that before Christian I made a list of all the months I wanted to meet him leading up to marriage. I told the Lord that I wanted to meet my husband in December 2022 , get engaged around March / April and get married during July and it all happened. Praise to Jesus because hears us and gives us exactly what we need. He was made for me , everything I prayed for I definitely got. Don’t give up on your desire because Jesus will do it and no relationship or person is perfect but with Jesus we can look beyond our differences and love each other unconditionally.
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I have loved doing the weekly zoom calls. It seems like they are just for me! The Lord speaks so powerfully through the ladies on there, and I walk away feeling so seen and encouraged! It’s good to know I’m not alone and empowering to understand that if they can get their breakthrough, so can I.
Desiree
The Journal work around us God about boundaries and the video Bec did was such a breakthrough moment for me. I realized exactly how much I had been dishonoring myself and how much of a powerful person I truly am. It's time to STAND IN IT!
Krystal
I can't recommend Bec's dating for breakthrough course enough! Every week there's been a breakthrough for me. The homework and videos are full of great content, and there's enough content in the weekly homework to last months! It's not a skim over the top kind of course, it's a lets go deep with Jesus, kind of course. The topics that are covered and the reach that they have is so much bigger then just finding a husband.
The application is for everyday life from growing in character to learning how to be better with boundaries and relationships, to identifying lies about ourselves and men, there is so much good stuff covered. The week on boundaries was particularly helpful for me, I realised exactly how much I had been dishonouring myself and allowing others to walk all over me. Identifying these lies was super helpful but also having a community to encourage me to trust myself and hold me accountable was so good. I had a wondeful mentor and an amazing group of ladies to walk it through with. Our coaching calls were so much fun and I learnt lots by listening to other peoples stories. We really did become a great little community in the time we had together! If you're considering this course do it! I've had life changing breakthrough moments from working through this content. One of many examples is I came having a huge amount of fear and anxiety around men to the point I often couldn't make eye contact. God helped me to deal with the root of that fear. Now I'm able to make eye contact and feel great PEACE!! Yay GOD! And thanks Bec for helping us ladies lean in to love and accept the awesome people God has created us to be.
Krystal
“Out of all the dating and relationship courses I have taken, Bec’s 9 Weeks to Breakthrough in Dating is the only one that powerfully addressed root issues, empowering me to come out of agreement with any lies or limiting beliefs I was holding and replace them with the more abundant truth. It was weighty with revelation, but practical in application. Bec coaches you through any struggle areas and equips you to be successful in dating, whether that is putting yourself out there in meeting people or navigating a healthy relationship. I was dating someone when I began the course, and we ended up breaking up in the duration of the course due to compatibility issues. But because of the content, I was able to identify our incompatibility and communicate that with honor, ending the relationship well, and excited to put myself out there again. This course will force and equip you to take ownership and agency over your dating life, and to trust God’s goodness in the process. 10/10, highly recommend!”
Anjuli
Hey, I'm Bec Chamberlain
When it comes to dating I have experienced it all. I have been rejected, ghosted, felt hopeless and totally hated the waiting. Then, God did a work in my heart and before I met my now-husband I was thriving in my singleness, so hopeful, loving life, loving dating and I attracted an amazing man who was as well. I got married at 30 and we have been married for 1.5 years.
I have been helping singles for most of my Christian life, however God led me into much more intentional ministry over the last 2.5 years. I founded two thriving groups online for Christian singles and after seeing that growth and success (yay for lots of couples meeting and getting married!) I started a Christian dating site called agaphey, so that Christians who actually LOVE Jesus could meet others who do as well, date, get married and creating amazing families together.
It has been the mission on my heart, to raise up singles who love Jesus with all that they are, are thriving and healthy in their single season who then can attract a spouse (who is also healthy and thriving) and have an amazing marriage.
I began intentionally coaching women in dating in 2021 and have seen so much fruit come out of it (you can see a few testimonies on this page). Many of them went from being awkward in dating, afraid to step out, afraid of rejection, not knowing who they were and getting no dates to feeling confident in who they were created to be, confident in dating and guess what…they started having dates and more dates! Men were now approaching them!
As these ladies told their stories of breakthrough, more and more women started reaching out to me daily. I realised that I couldn’t serve all of these women one on one without burning myself out in the process, but I desperately wanted to help them.
So…. I put all the wisdom and work that I had done with these women that led to their breakthrough (and dates and more dates!) into this 9 week course.
It is a roadmap to greater healing, greater confidence and will challenge you to step out of your comfort zone and meet God like you never have before, in the journey.
Breakthrough is just on the other side
I'm excited to walk with women on their dating journey and help them to THRIVE like I did
Hey, I'm Bec Chamberlain
It's time to be intentional, get healthy and attract men you actually want to date
What you will get in this hands-on course
- 15+ hours of course material and teaching (valued at $2500)
- Weekly Coaching Calls with Q+A (valued at $1200)
- Weekly homework + challenges (valued at $600)
- Community Support System (valued at $500)
- BONUS Love Stories ebook to build hope
Some lessons covered:
Hearing God's Voice
beliefs about yourself and men (and how they are holding you back)
The Goal of dating
how to stay in hope
Your Triggers
Lack vs. abundance mentality
Fear in dating
Performance and manipulation cycles
Projecting Availability
Passive vs. active waiting
Confidence and how to meet and approach men
Fantasies and guarding your heart
Pacing
Boundaries
Pursuing back
How to communicate in Dating
Plus: Challenges
bonus: Love story testimonies
Who this course is
for
- Women who feel stuck in their dating life and want to do something to actively change it
- Women who are not interested in passively waiting, but want to step out and be active and do their part and trust God to do the rest
- Women who are open and ready to be challenged in their dating life
- Women who want to hear the Lord for their dating life and do the deep heart work with Him
- Women who are tired or discouraged by the way their dating life is going and want radical change and breakthrough
Who this course is not for
- Women who believe they are in a waiting season
- Women who don't believe they should play an active role in their dating journey
- Women who aren't willing to go deep with the Lord or be challenged by Him
- Women who believe that their husband will show up on their doorstep one day without them having to actively do anything
- Women who are not open or ready to date
Enrollments are currently closed
Early-bird enrollment opens November 6th
Early-bird enrollment ends Sunday midnight PST!
I'm in!
ONE-TIME
Introductory offer
$499
$
399
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15+ hours of course material
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Weekly Coaching Calls
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Weekly Homework
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Community support
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Instant access
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1:1 Mentoring
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Lifetime access to all course content
PAYMENT PLAN
Introductory offer
$545
$
240
monthly for 2 months -
15+ hours of course material
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Weekly Coaching Calls
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Weekly Homework
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Community support
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Instant access
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1:1 Mentoring
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Lifetime access to all course content
ONE-TIME
Introductory offer
$499
$
299
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15+ hours of course material
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Weekly Coaching Calls
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Weekly Homework
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Community support
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Instant access
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1:1 Mentoring
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Lifetime access to all course content
Early Bird
PAYMENT PLAN
Introductory offer
$545
$
180
monthly for 2 months -
15+ hours of course material
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Weekly Coaching Calls
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Weekly Homework
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Community support
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Instant access
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1:1 Mentoring
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Lifetime access to all course content
Pricing
One-time
payment
$
299
one-time
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Instant access
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Over 15+ hours of content
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Weekly LIVE Coaching Call
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1:1 Mentorship
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Weekly Homework and BONUS content
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Monthly
$
180
/2 payments
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Instant access
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Over 15+ hours of content
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Weekly LIVE Coaching Call
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1:1 Mentorship
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Weekly Homework and BONUS content
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the schedule/commitment of the course?
The course is made up of 3 different components.
Every week you will go through that week's lessons (pre-recorded and available on your student dashboard) at your own pace, go through the homework (questions at your own pace) and attend one of the LIVE coaching calls. You will also have a mentor who will check in with you once a week.
What are the dates for the course?
We start November 27th, break for 2 weeks from Dec. 24th-Jan. 8th and finish Feb. 11th.
Is the course 1:1 or in a group setting?
You will work through the teaching content on your own and the Live Coaching Calls are conducted in a group setting. This allows us to offer the course to you at an affordable price.
What if I fall behind?
The biggest focus of this course is to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit, not to necessarily complete the course in the same timeframe as everyone else. I would much rather you stay in a week's lessons for two-three weeks and have amazing revelation and the Lord absolutely transforms your heart, than for you to try and skip through all the content just to make it as 'done'. This happens for many of our students and we love that they move at God's pace. You are always welcome to join any LIVE coaching calls for the next cohort and you will have lifetime access to the course so if God is on something, there is no pressure to rush. Revelation and breakthrough is so much more important than consuming content.
When are the weekly Live Coaching Calls?
Friday 5-6pm PST
Saturday 9-10am PST
There will be recordings available each week if you were not able to attend LIVE.
Do I need to attend every Live Coaching call?
No, you only need to attend one coaching call per week
What if I can't make a LIVE session?
Although we do encourage commitment to one LIVE coaching call per week, the Saturday call is recorded and will be made available to you within 24-48 hours.
How do I know if this will work for me?
The lessons that we are teaching in this course are the exact lessons that have led SO many women to breakthrough and healing in their dating journey. Our course is not a one size fits all approach and we work with Holy Spirit to bring about your specific breakthrough. If you commit and are all in, we don't see how it cannot work for you.
Is this course for Christian women only?
Yes. This course is for women who have accepted Jesus as their Lord and Saviour. Everything we do is led by the Holy Spirit.
What if something happens and I need a refund?
Due to the proprietary nature of the program and the content provided, there are no refunds available. We reserve the right to refuse any refund request.
Will I find my husband after this course?
We cannot make any guarantees, however we do know that you will be more healed, healthy and confident in dating and set up for success to meet a healthy, godly man.